Wednesday

Today it is a year ago that Our Friend died. Our friend died with her hated sister in attendance, the now proved despicable brother in law and her poor old father.


This morning i went to the tip and as the tip is on the way to Mutual Friends we dropped in on the way back, thinking to just say High and maybe have a cup of tea. Instead we spent all day there, our son playing with their daughter and latter the lad too. Sort of helping Prof fix the car (fan belt) and chatting. Mutual friend wants to put flowers on the grave, probably plant some too. I told her that Our Friends favorite was "red hot pokers", she planted them several times in her small patch but i think they only grew once. I remember her saying how much she liked them, so i suggested them. We looked them up in a book and i think maybe she will get some to plant. She said "it doesn't seem like a year...." to me it seems like a life time. Im pretty down about it. Hide it well i hope but its hard work most of the time.