Wednesday

Last night about half one in the morning, we were chatting in bed and the wife mentioned something which maybe significant. Couple of days ago in the report forwarded by the Will Solicitor the Childcatcher mentioned that she hadn't seen the Will yet. Yesterday she said on the phone that she now had a copy of the Will. Which is odd, as it didn't come through official channels (and her seeing the Will came up, 'cos wife pointed out to her that we had given permission but "they" hadn't, something she didn't know and had surprised her) It came from.... The father. Who should not have a copy at all. Where did he get that? It can only have come from one source, we have been very carefully about not letting it go out without all four executors permission. So "they" have given him the Will without our permission. Why?

I wonder if "they" have been behind his application for Custody from the start, maybe suggesting it to him from the first. Giving him the Will to try to get him to say our friend wasn't thinking straight when she made it. Its not complimentary to him. The statement about him from our friend, made at the same time as the Will certainly isn't. And the Bro in law agreed with it when me and him met to read the Will at the solicitors...... Maybe they think they can control him, or have offered him something...


A little diversion. Afternoon frantic phone call from Fivemum, can i pay her hubbys car insurance, Errr why?... im nice but not that nice! She means can i pay it with my bank card over the phone and she'll give me the money tomorrow, OK. Why exactly? Seems hubby has been stopped by the cops and, well, his insurance run out a few days ago...... oops. Phoned the insurance company with details and she had arranged it with them, i think she was panicking over nothing as the run out was within the usualy cover note time, but i paid it anyway.

She said she had visted her dad last week and he seemd fine after his big OP, cheerful even. Shes still worried tho.

Wife was cool about the insurance thingy, knew she would be.

No emails, no ranting phone calls, nothing. Maybe Mr jetset (mr "them") is off in America again. maybe he's just desperately planning some pincer movement. Phoned hotdog inquireing about Godbothers absence for her phone, they have all three of them writen thier statements, mostly they are about the fathers drinking, which is good as they know things we dont.

Been discussing next move, wife want to talk to Will solicitor tommorow (he was out today). Im wonderign just when to engage him to act for the estate to sugest "they" bugger off out of it. And just what the proceedure is for that, what with them haveing to actuly agree to him being engaged! they could become "reserved executors" sort of back seat executors, but im not keen, i want them off the case compleatly.