Monday..well thats off the wall.

Humm phone clal late last night ment i couldnt sleep, eventuly going to bed at half one then up agian at five. Mutual friend said the lad returned form visit to fathers crying that he couldn't stay with dad, my first reaction which is very uncharitable is " ungreatfull little bastard"... but well its actuly undrestandable. He also said "daddys much nicer to me than you or mummy"... hummm... anyway Mutual friend did as i sugested and got the father alone and talked. He obviosly seeing things diferently from us and our friend. He genuinely had not a clue how bad his actions or lack of actions looks to everyone. Aparently he was on the point of tears at severil points. Anyroad Mutual friend is now thinking that a good relationship with him is something to build on, and that he wouldlmaybe be better off with dad. Tho' dad dont seem in anyway to have thought it through, he isnt even the joint tenant with his new girl friend, has no idea how much a child costs and hadnt thought about even collecting him from school!.... Apparently his low opinion of "them" is unchanged and isnt in legue with "them" as we suspected. Ok i said we would surport Mutual friend in whatever she decided, which is all we can do.

Went to she her just now and chatted about things. Last night she had phoned "them" and got all sorts of acusations and vague threats and a refusal to put anything in writeing, evil knows its on dodgy ground!...While i was ther she got a cal from Childcatcher, explained the new ideas, tho i had to leave to collect our lad before she finished on the phone.

Stil nothing from "them" to us.... he is there so thats very strange.

Still no emails maybe some huge wad of acusations will land tommorow... hes got enough sense not to put thinsg in writeing usualy (tho the mails to the Will soclicitor are pretty intemperate at times).. Its 8.30 now and im actuly feeling spaced out and wobbly with fatigue.