Thursday. oh shit.

Dam, just had phone call from Mutual friend. She hadnt wanted to worry us but she wanted to tell us of the court meeting. Idiot judge gave the usless father full parental "responsibility" which would be a new thing for him indeed. Understandably Mutual friend is in dispare about this. She also phoned grandad, and asked if he was going to lie, and he is going to full out lie to the court about the fathers contact. As part of his mitigation for this he cited the fathers finacial responsibility as per his employer and a loan for a motorbike, so as mutual friend pointed out he was borrowing money for a bike but made no contirbultion for his child. mutual friend is now going to ask for some money regualrly for the lads care.... lets see how long he can manage that..dam dam....

And as for "them" aparently she sent an advent callender to Grandads house for the lad and he talked to her on the phone so one of them is around at least.
Life is shit, the awful people seem to have the upper hand all the time.

So looks like worst fears are comming true, our friends is beried in a place she didnt want (and her child paying for it) her child is going (probably) to someone she despised, and "they" have made it pretty certain that her beloved house she sacrficed so much for, has to be sold....