Sunday is it?

Wife's been doing accounts of our friend all day. Its so personal, tracking her every movement a paper trail of life. Wife's gets very upset by it. I took our lad out to tool shop and guiltily i spent £10 on a drill clamp, which i have to admit i sort of hid from the wife. We wandered round the cheep clothes shop there too, noticing some Smarties boots that our mutual friends daughter would like. We wandered looking at tools and things, then drove back, Dropped in at mutual friends on the way back to chat. The boys cruely ganged up on her daughter tho. We got some time to discuss things without the children as they played in the house. She got quite upset while we talked. Apparently she phoned the Sis and bro in law to tell them of the iminant arrival of the residency letters, they were very surprise that we would get a copy. I find them so alien, they don't even seem to know normal legal manners. We are executors, we need to know, especialy as no one can rely on them. She said " all this is about them, not about our friend or her child, they are so selfish" I had to agree, we are all revolving round them. She told us of another bank account, Barkleys. I assumed that was the bank account that they said they had sorted out, and i had misjudged them, but wife told me now that she had told Barkley's last week and they hadn't been informed. So why did Bro in law explicitly state that they had "frozen" the bank accounts?... Wife suspects they are huffy now as we have been arranging things. fuck em.

The fish are well, but looked a bit distressed as their air pump wasn't working properly. So we cleaned out the filter, it produced the most ghastly smell imaginable, like month old wet crab meat. Poor old fish seemed much perkier when we put the pump back in working properly, tho i would imagine the noise of it in the water is huge!

Went to buy our lad a toy, suddenly he was seized with the possibility of getting two toys with the money and went round and round the shop asking prices. I remember driving my parents mad doing this self same thing.

Returned to find wife very distressed and very ready to see us. To get something other to think about.