a brief visit

this morning i dropped in on our friend (after getting a couple of paint brushes and delivering the long delayed sign to Hotdog)... i found my friend and our mutual friend in tears. It seemes our mutual friends partner has said he's "worried" about takeing on the son. Now they are both worrying about it, tho i wonder if "worried" means what they think it means. Id be "worried" too, tho not stopped by it. He worries about money. he comes from a family concerned with money and due to this concern he has ended up with investments that ment he has a small income. So he mostly lounges round all day talking about what he'd like to make and never doing it. (heaven)... My friend had told her son that morning that she was going to die. Im not sure what a seven year old can take abourd but she explained that thier little house (ironicly its a converted old mortuary) would eventuly become his when he was old enough. I think she told him he would go and live with our mutual friend till he was old enough... the partner last time i saw him cornerd me in his garage and said that the son would have the house in trust and income form rent, so maybe the "worry" is about that.
My friend also told me she wanted to be buried in the house she loves so much (and has sacrificed a lot to have. Things like food etc). It seems grim but i pointed out it was built straight on the bed rock. She has give it all some thought and asked if i could find out (on the net, where?) if she could be intered upright in the back wall..... i will try to find out, maybe ask an undertaker.


ive just been to do just that... and he thought there were three problems to it.. planning permision(tho he said another local authority didnt ask fo rit tho this one he thought did) the water company want to know if thier water is going to be poluted and any buriel has to be marked on the deeds. he phoned a mate at planning and nowdays it apears they dont ask for planning permision, so thats one down. He house is litteraly in a grave yard so water shouldnt object and well deeds are of no consiquence. £12000 for buriel plus any bulding makeing of vaults etc...