Wednesday/Thursday

Oh.. phoen rang last night i answered it as we thought it might be "them" it wasnt it was Mr lecturer, we should have phoned to ask him his results. We have all been poorly with a rotten cold all week. He seemed quite chipper but news as always isnt good. Hes got some condition that means his bone marrow isnt makeing red blood cells, so he said his liver and pleen has to do the job instead, hes been given fiver years to live. With the last year sustained by blood transfusions......... he said see you Saturday, by then you will have thought of something funny to say, he was jokeing.

Saturday

Went out with Mr lecturer, his bithday, they forced him to retire yesterday, he not to pleased with this. he bought us all dinner. he get his bone marrow results Wednesday, he said for "the bad news, really bad news or Disaterious news"... he seems quite chirpy, though i know hes very worried. I didnt know what to say really. Im not sure whats happening but he mentioned his nefew is comming down to help him move back to Stoke. I think today was the last Saturday out, we have been doing this pretty much for the last 15 years.

Its Chemical Ali's birthday too Wife is out at pub with the Chemical brothers at moment.

friday

Posted them off....

Thursday

Glad to find that Weezy, is enjoying her new net conection, tho the "wireless" dotn work unless the wire is conected!.....

I meligned the Probate office yesterday unduely, there was both resignation copies there just sort of sligtly sticking together. Mr Handy is of the opinion that they consitute a deed and to send it off.. im inclined to agree.

Wednesday

Oh why is everything so hard?... they sent the copied renunciation of executorship, stamped and verified as a fair copy etc.....just mine, not the wifes...........fer fuck sake!.

Monday

Last night Hippe chicl and Gthman dropped round, shes canceled her interview at London Uni. She says she hasnt any money. Thats true im sure, we gave them some food to cook till they get thier dole check thursday. But i also think her canceling is to do with her self destructive streek.

Wifes been home today , she went to see her friend Nita. Shes oddly normal but strangely for "Normal" also highly moral. She told the wife that her ex council house has a ghost. She isnt one for flights of fancy. Apparently At night sometimes one can hear a child playing in the bathroom, or chattering. Shes wolken to find a curly haird girl hovering over her, her husband has seen a child standing at the foot of the bed and her nefews both saw a girl when they slept there, without knowing about the "visitor". her daughter ahs also seen her standing behind her bedroom door. She thinks its agir who maybe died in the old Hospital wing of the Abey that the council estate stand one. She not exactly frieghtend by her, she said she doesnt like to think about the "Ghost" It raises soem dificult questions, as it does for me too.

Friday

Wife off work, cleared up and visted Weezy. Spent all afternoon trying to set up her Wireless internet to no avail, she just phoned, it was Norton fire wall, helpfully preinstalled and working on internet security by stopping everything going to or from the net..... she spent two hours on the phone to thier Indian Help line to find out that...

Thursday

Loaded some stuff on Weezys new laptop, maybe shes on the net now as she was expecting the modem today.

wednesday

Down to fivemn, two of her kids off school, youngest just cos he wanted to stay home and the eldest too for same reason (the old ear ache excuse) she has a healthily relaxed attitude to school.

The seven new puppies are doing well, they are keeping the largely whte one (they are border collies) they are very cute, she said they have homes for five of the others so far. Set up the computer that the kids grand parents bought for them. the girl was dieing to get it all plugged in, fivemum fussed about, she very anti technology.

Tuesday

Posted the request and check first thing this morning....

Monday

Opened the probate office letter last night.... OFERFUCKSAKE!... probate office took two weeks to send confiemation of resignation.....and what did they send?.. a fuck off big envelope containing the aplication for probate forms and nothing we wanted..... fuck fuck fuck idiots.

Trying to phone they are always engaged....... iritated isnt not the word.

So i got through. Seems that waht i was told last time was bollox. We need to ask by letter and enclose a £5 check...... obviosly a really well run place ah... "they" will be chewing the carpet.

Sunday

Out yesterday with Mr lecturer, poor bugger told us about the bone marrow thing. Didnt hurt he said but it was a great lump of his hip the chipped out. Hes convinced he has lukemia, seems worried. Walked down by the river in wadebridge. Fish and chips.

Today just lazeing about and spot of shopping. have to open that Probabte office letter soon, try to sort it out tommorow.

Friday

Took Hippiechick to the collage to sort out her exam entries. gawd its pretty hard work being a soraogate uncle sometimes!

Came back and the post had arived, big thick envelope from Probate court, i left it on the mat, havent opened it yet, its another days problem. The solicitor isnt open tommorow anyway.

Thursday

Weezy to look at her new computer. Handys to chat and drink tea, then get two bags of coal. Then rush out to Mutual friends, she was appalled by the size of the bill. I am too when its broken down its £500 just for travel!... I tried to talk her down abit, pointing out that its wasn't her problem...yet. She said that "Mr bastard" would for certain not agree to pay and cause all sorts of problems. Yes he will, but the bills gon to him now, it appears that the solicitor thinks he should pay it, i presume he knows what hes doing. (some hope ah!) And maybe the battle is between the solicitor and "them" now.... and im not sure how the solicitor can send the bill to "them" and then if they dont pay (and they wont) send it to Mutual friend... Certainly i think Mutual friend is more liable to pay, the solicitors contract was with her, not the estate.... but as as ive found the law is tottaly bollox and crap...who knows.... we sniggered thinking, if they did refuse to pay... the solicitor might just take "them" to court....hopefully messing up thier credit rateing lol lol lol.

Wednesday

neighbours lad has been diagnosed with glandualr feaver and should be home today, which is a relief. Neighbour had his son in law up a ladder out front fixing the roof and he unblocked our common gutter, which is good cos i was avoiding it due to fear of ladders/heights.

Will solicitor firms letter today....ohhh i feel explosions comming on. Its the bill for mutual friends soclicitor fighting custody..... its £3,525.22 !... phoned mutual friend, she was shocked too. Thats been sent to "them" too, i think we may hear the explosion form here. I expect they will object strongly and constantly tho not to us. Legaly im wondering if they are liable to pay anyway, it will be used and an excuse to sell the hosue i have no doubt.

No letter from probate court yet.

Mutual friend has seen the the lad last week. Hes had a buzz cut, head is now in the classic "Thug cut"..... all his golden curls gon, part of his asimulation i gues, he likes it he says.

Tuesday

Yesterday i heard that out nice neigbours son was rushed into hosptial. He does alot of rowing and at the week end he started to throw up and couldnt get warm. The doctor sent him straight to hospital. they suspected an ulcer or gallstones. Ths all is so cruel to our neighbour who lost his wife int he same way as out friend about four years ago, poor chap. Anyway they did a scan yesterday and didnt find gallstones or an ulcer. They apparently supect his pleen/kidneys. Hope hes Ok..

No letter from the Probate court yet......

Friday

Last night composed a letter to "Them" explaining what we were doing, the wife wanted to put something about them paying, but i stopped her, pointing out that when we had the arrangements in place we had to hold the solicitors letter to ransom so they would pay. As they are capable of betraying our Friends so easily they would cheat us in a heartbeat. Posted it first thing in morning.


a memory, Our friend once went on a wild Hen night. Everyone had funny hats, hers had a life like dildo on the brim. The next day she complained to me that it was all floppy and useless. Which cracked me up, as i pointed out "Only you could have an impotent dildo!"

Thursday

Mr handy is of the opinion that "They" are bullshitting, but are indeed stupid enough to believe themselves. Came home and oh joy not one but TWO letters from "Them" are on the door mat. One dated 25th the other 27th (yerr right, i think he's been consulting his secret legal advisor again) anyway one asks for a to whom it may concern letter again and makes a threat . The threat is we are "Acting against the terms of the grant of probate, issues by the high court".... ah?... we didn't know probate had been granted for a start and as we resigned before probate why is our problem anyway?... It is bullshit, im tempted to write bullshit against it and send it back but Mr Handy advised against it lol.. The second letter demands the "Deed of resignation" thing. Which surest he is indeed shitting himself, he phoned and wrote two letters.... and risked what he got, Me basically accuseing him of threatening us again..... I phoned the Probate office in Brum, and they are sending a copy of our resignation form, so today we must write telling "Them" what we are doing and being all smarmy... soonest attention etc..

Wednesday

Consulting the best legal advice i can, which is Mr Handy. Explained it to him he's said at first write a simple letter and keep it going for a month just to shit "them" up... Then i said "They" had volunteered to pay for the "Deed" (resigning from something we arnt in anyway) Mr handy's reaction was to laugh, and say "He's desperate!, do it, get the solicitor to write a letter saying you have resigned and get him to notorise it"


Ever have that feeling that your attendance is required at all times? That nothing happens unless your there to actually tell people what to do, and then they get all upset when you give in a start to issue step by step instructions cos you just cant stand the inefctualtity any more..... fuck i need someone to take a bit of the stain occasionally.