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Just me talking, telling stories of people i know or have known and the story of My friends death... not as depressing as it sounds!

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Location: cornwall, United Kingdom

married one son (7)

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Tuesday

Weezy hasnt be able to get the hospital car people to give her a lift to the dentist, so she asked me to do it tommorow. 35 miles away though.


oh the bile ahs arived. It just plopped thro the door and i havent opened it yet.. shall i? shall i indeed, hearts pounding. Im actuly shakeing now....

Ah yes a rave....rave about the package we sent them, unopened mail in it etc...oh dear aprently theres a tax demand there... oh dear he cant open the CD file..oh dear...fuck you bastards!(that was my reaction)...Do you intend to stand down as executors (TOO FUCKING RIGHT WE DO)

question is what now.... what do we do. im not about to pay for a solicitor to draw up a dead of resignantion. Do i just Scrawly YES on it and send it back or "As soon as you can arange it"...i wonder.

Phone probate office. nice lady said "they" have to apply to Probate court for form for us to sign... so fuck them, we will do that then. Dam form dont have a box for why you want to resign, that would have been fun.

I just "replyed"..crossed out the crap on "thier letter" circled the "Are you going to stand down" and wrote Yes send us the forms"...copied it and sent it off...cunts uttter cunts have won.


Calmed down a bit now, considering why i did that. I sopose its a way of showing hatred, anger etc maybe appearing mad so they dont try to mess with us anymore. Treating thier carfuly bile laden letter with contempt is the way to go. Not answering thier questions, its thier problem now.

Monday, January 30, 2006

Monday

Stil no bile! Im getting comfortabel with this.

Quiet day fixing the sink, and stokeing the stove toasty warm.

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Sunday

Thankfully out of range of post, a day of rest. Monday no doubt will be more bile dribbeling thro the letter box, but fuck'em....
Ive been enttertaining our son by fixing the stove while its still alight! Drilling holes for a new door, putting my hand inside the ash box and trying to do up the nuts was painfull, but i did it. Leaveing the wife to unblock the kitchen sink on the other hand, well we dotn have a sink now, or not a functioning one as the screw into the pug hole stripped and its still blocked anyway. So tommorw its off to the builders merchant for new plug hole thingy and a sink plunger.

Saturday, January 28, 2006

Saturday

We went out to Looe and rode the branch line much to our sons delight. It has a switch back, and runs along the estury side.

Ariveing home i tried to make sure i got thro the door first, to intercept any postal bile, typicaly the wife didnt think and barged in, luckily there was no letter waiting for us. I think itll arive monday.

Friday, January 27, 2006

Friday

Hum stil not biel thro the letter box.... ariseing from a discusion on the net i think we are being "passive agressive" after all the longer they go along the road to Probate the more "they" have invested in it. And the more "they" will loose if we insiste on resigning, and the bigger twats "they" will look to everyone, tho they will make sure we are blamed.

I was just out going to the bank and this old guy was walking up the street. hes an nice old guy...when i first met him he comented on my "Strong firm thighs" while smaking his lips.... anyway hes ok even if he does fancy me! (quite flattering really).. anyway i just met him and he told me, hes just passed 100yrs old..... Happy birthday mr gay old guy!

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Thursday

Still no letter.... is this good or bad i cant decide. If anything "they" are being bugged, which is a good thing...

Mr Handy says just write "We resign" letter saying nothing else and sign it. We will when we get the, no doubt bile filled letter.

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Wednesday

Visited Mutual friend this afternoon, didnt spend much time talking tho. Was chattign to her friends partner about bikes etc, hes a very loud northern bloke. Mutual friend seems disapointed that we are going to jack it all in. She sugested we try again and point out to "them" our proposaly etc, I really do think there is no point, they are going to do exactly what the hell they want. And are just causeing us more pain. She sugested we tell them all the thing we have already told them and got no answer, its pointless.

The parcel company told the wife that "Mrs Them" signed for the parcel on the morning of 19th. No letter yet but tommorow im sure, fuck em im not chaseing trouble.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Tuesday

No bile thro the post today, i expect it'll be tommorow. Tried to phone mutual friend, shes working but chatted to Prof instead, maybe i'll visit her tommorow.

Monday, January 23, 2006

Monday

No letter yet. Tho waiting is causeing some tension. Called Mutual friend, shes ok and so is lad, hes enjoying his dads attension, which is good, we all hope it works out. Dotty was on her way to play the tape of the psycic to her, i asured her it wasnt at all creepy and very short. I think she had an idea it would be the full wierd voice stuff seen on films.

Sunday, January 22, 2006

Sunday

Gettign back to "normal", stove working well went out to collect pine cones to burn, due to wife childhood memories of burning pine cones. I wnt to go to the emails and kill that address, but im sure "they" will have befouled it with a new rant. I want to email everyone we know exept "them" a chaneg in address, but i fear to go there.... i want to coppy all the rants to a folder on computer but i dont want to get contaminated by them.... what to do.

Got brave and printed out all thier rants, avoiding reading them, put em all in folder. Delted acount, sent notification to friends of new acount. I expect we'll get the rant thro the post tommorow but at least i know its only comming from one direction now.

Saturday, January 21, 2006

Saturday

Warm moment, we were out with mr lecturer went to the Veggie resteraunt in PZ. Sat at the other tabel was Mrs Gardener and Armchair, they are concerned about us since we didnt have heating, and offered that if the weather gets real cold (as its predicted to) we should go stay with them for a few days till it passes, friends ah. No need tho the stove is heating the place up nicely.

Friday, January 20, 2006

Friday

Lit the stove and it seems to work, at least its been going for 6 hours and we arent dead yet.


We are going to look at email maybe sunday, just to email people we want to comunicate with, a new email address and then dump that address (its hotmail).

Thursday, January 19, 2006

Thursday

Mr handy is of the opinion that the solicitors opinion (that we cant resign at this point) is bollox. After all there must be a way for resigning, no doubt with extra cost the "them" (like i care nowdays) .. the next rant we get should be interesting, tho im not looking forwards to it. "They" shoudl have got the parcel today, tho i bet they got a "tried to deliver" note cos they are the sort to be out spreading crap all day. Im not looking at the emails. And im going to add them to the spam filter.

Amazeign i feel relaxed for the first time for weeks it seems, i wonder ho wlong itll be shattered, and idley how long and just what "they" can do to us if we just simply dont answer any comunications...... Mr handy says just sighn anything and send it back. Probably we will do that.

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

Wednesday

Ou tto Fivemun this morning, that place is lawless, a local guy runs the "speekeasy" private pub in his house !


Came back to a letter , thankfully from the Will solicitor. It says hes sent the original Will off to "them" and "I fully understand your position and have noted your coments. I totally agree there is nothing more that you could have done as executors during this dificult period.
Many thanks for the photos which i will keep "



Have i told you this? stop me if i have, but i rememberd last night, late at night, things running round my head..Not only did "they" take the bed that our friend died on "for our spare bed, after all its nearly new".....ok practical, also so cold... but the day she died, her body was taken away by the undertaker..... and they actuly SLEPT IN IT THAT NIGHT... which is beond cold. I wonder if they even changed the sheets, these arent humans we have to deal with, these are, i dont know what....

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

Tuesday

The Post office want £20 for the parcel.... wifes work will send it for £8 so it has to wait till tommorow, one can only hope the delay causes "them" to have a stroke and die.

not looking at the emails at all. I might just add them to the spam filter and wait for the ranting hard copy every time...

Took parcel up to wifes work fo rpost tomorow, 24 hr delivery.

Monday, January 16, 2006

Monday

went to town, friends bank wont acept the money we collected from Dotty. Bought box for all the paperwork. Came back went to my bank, they wont either, went to bank with trusties acount, after some detective work we found the acount (opening in August and not used yet), paid it in there. Im not holding cash they could claim ive stolen, so fuck em when they sugested we "hide it"...i put the tabs in with stuff to be sent. Fired the "release the will" letter into the post box on my way past without breaking stride. It contained a letter just saying...in light of your advice release the Will... and a letter to the solicitor with a pic of our friend, smileing when she sold my mag at a steam fair, she almost never smiled for a pic, and one of the lad and our son playing. We will have to ring Dotty, tell her not to ask for any more things to sell. Thats ended, We are resolved not to let them have any amunition to attack anyone. Not now and not in the future.

We wrote that
"We enclose a picture of (the lad and our son) and a picture of (Our friend).

We are going to resign as soon as we can, we don’t think we can win against “The Evil Ones” as they both appear to be deranged.

We promised (our friend) we would defend (Mutual friend) against them, but now that (the lad) is with the person they have chosen instead of (Our friends) choice we hope they will behave decently towards (drunken father). But we don’t think we can stop them whatever they decide to do. They care only about themselves and have no sense of shame.

Also, if (Drunken father) decides he doesn’t want them to have contact we don’t want to be in the position where as executors we have to defend their right to contact. They are the worst people we have ever had dealings with and we won’t be letting them ever meet (Our son) again. We are fed up with them poisoning our lives.

Thank you for your support during this trying time. It is mad that a report produced by one court showing that they have fought the will can’t be produced to another court in evidence. But there’s nothing we can do about it. We all know they have lied about (our friends) wishes and her state of mind. I think even the (Childcatcher) women must have an inkling by now. We’re fed up with them staining the memory of (Our Friend) and find it difficult to believe she comes from the same family. You only met her briefly, but we promise you she was nothing like them. She was always a good friend and one of the hardest working people we had ever met. And she had a very strong sense of morality, unlike this pair. She would never have behaved like them, were the positions reversed.

We might not have been able to stop them, but at least they know that there are people who know they are lying scumbags. Considering the level of selfishness, vindictiveness and just plain awfulness they manage to pack into their nasty little personalities we don’t suppose any co-executors would have managed any better. (Our Friend) would have to have been very unlucky to know a second lot of people as unpleasant as them, and that is what it would take to win against them. At least we’ve been a decoy target, as (Mutual friends) have had more than enough to cope with without having to put up with the poison they spread with every contact.

Good luck with the new job. We hope that everything works out okay for you."

I wrote onthe bottom a Chinese quote "He who would do what his opponant is ashamed to do, has the advantage"

It feels good to resolve something. Tho' its not over by a long chalk. But me and the wife have decided to treat thier every comunication with distain. Take thier letters, write a reply on that letter (copy it) and send it back, and anymore threats gets "Put up or SHUT UP" writen on it and returned.... im fed up with the legal niceties that make it all seem civilised, im fucking angry and i want them to know that and to fucking run if they see me comming. I havent posted the documents yet, the wife wants to just do the last of Our friends acounts, put them on a CD and enclose them (she promised our friend she would do he acounts) i sugested i sought out a virus to put along with it, but that was vetoed!....

Nasty moment i got up to go get our boy from school, and there was some post, a circular from bank, one to executors and one obviosly from "the evil ones".... i didnt open them before going out. Executors one is a bank statment. I opened it glanced to see what it was and dropped it into the "to be sent box".... the other....thank god was just the email rant in letter form. If they had started proceedings against us it all would have started out again (not that they have grounds but as the Will solicitors said, one never knows what "they" have told thier solicitor).. opinions are mixed here as to what to do with the printed rant. The wife favours just fileing it, i favour wipeing my arse with it and sending it back, or tearing it into bits and sending it back (i bet if he thought there was a threat or real violence that would shit him up). I gues file it with the others... wifes haveing slight cold feet about sending back the keys as it "might be viewed as unresonable"... so what i think. What can they do?.....they can fuck off is what they can do.


Just before i went out i had a call from Fearful, shes been trying to phone Mutual Friend, rather typicaly, as im sure she wants most to be left alone. Fearful thinks she can "help".... like you need an inefectual hippie to help. Anyway, she asked how i was so i let her have the story and how awful "they" were and advised her strongly not to do or say anthing for them, as it would lead to trouble from "them", even picking up the post etc. And on no acount contact "them" and i told her that they had moaned about her, which they had.

I must phoen fivemum sometime, shes haveing bad time with her dad and all those kids! We cant forget our other friends. Visiting her is like a holiday from the world anyway, its so diferent.

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Sunday, giving in disgracefully.

Well ran that past Mr Handy, he laughed but when reading "thier" email comented that it was the raveings of an autistic mind. His opinion is that this could go on for years and it would be best to simply give in. I dont know if im pleased by that opinion or not, it was a relief. he said put everythign in an evelope and send it to them, all paper, all keys everything, and swear the oath that the probate form is filled in honestly "to the best of our knowledge", which maybe indeed be true, our opinion is that since we have asked three times for finacial paperwork, all that is no longer our responsibility, its down to the "bastards".....just say This is the letter the solicitor sent us and we release the Will, and heres everything, includeing the acounts, bank statments, everything all out of order and jumbled up. And the keys to the house, so they can fucking come 300 miles to check the post. Mr Handy said keep all cominications to lest words posible, preferably to four words!..... and get on with your life. We dont need this poison in our lives. Mr handy blamed out friend for apointing her sis in the first place and pointed out the sadness of someone as shes dieing haveing to "placate" her deranged sister....This isnt quite resigning, its giveing in disgracefully.. we wil still be executors, unless of course they try to remove us, in which case who knows what will happen, we might just fight. But its a resigning from the pain, resigning from the fight.

Today the lad went to his drunken father, he wanted to go..... im not phoneing mutual friend, she will be in bits i know, she knows we are here if she wants to talk.

Saturday, January 14, 2006

saturday

"they" sent another email this is our reply...

"*th January
In replyto your last 2 e-mails:

1.
Christmas is indeed a family time. The day before Christmas eve you sent us an e-mail demanding we answer a letter that arrived the same day as the e-mail.
We answered it on the 24th of December and did not chase you for a reply until the 4th of January.
2.
We can understand your desire for secrecary, if we had acted as you appear to have acted we would want to keep it secret from the world too.
3.
With respect to our contemporaneous notes , prefacing an attempt to intimitate with "it's not a threat" does it not make it any less an attempt to intimidate. (you might like to ask your secret legal adviser about this).
In point of fact we did not ask you if it was a threat. The question was ,and remains, if you did not mean that you were going to invite the creditors to sue us, then a, what did you mean? & b, why did you not correct that impression?
When you say you did what you said you would does this mean that yes you have invited them to sue us? As that is quite clearly what we believe you meant. Is that why you won't send us copies of the letters to the creditors?
4.a
(Will scolicitor) are not charging the estate anything for the legal advice on the probate. They gave us both the same legal advice about the problem with your appearing to fight the will as they were trying to prevent a situation where we would have to ask for your removal. Did you not read the letter they sent advising there was a problem if the will was released?
4.b
You do not have to share your legal advice with us. But if you want somebody to act on it then saying that you have Better legal advice from a higher source than our advice, so we'd better do as you say is not a convincing argument.
4.c
You not only refused to share the advice, but you refused to tell us where it was from so that we could go and ask whoever it was ourselves.
5.
The only intransigence appears to be your own seeming refusal to provide us with full information on which we can act.
The problem that has been holding us up since November is that you appear to be fighting part of (our friends) will and refuse to say that you support it and believe the will to be safe.
6.
Once again, we've asked for perfectly normal information and you have taken it as an accusation about your honesty.
Why don't you want to send us copies of anything? What do you think we are going to do with them?
As for keeping us fully informed, we haven't seen any mortgage documentation or mortgage insurance documentation. When we asked in August you ignored the e-mail, which we didn't pursue at the time as we didn't want to put you under anymore strain. When we asked again just before you came down with the probate forms you accused us of making accusations against your honesty. Until you came down we didn't know you'd filled any forms in.

As to our signatures meaning nothing, we signed that form when we trusted you. A situation that has changed.

7.
As for the ball being in our court. The resolution of this problem has been in your hands all along. The only thing required from you to resolve the matter was that you came out in full support of all of (our friends) will. The only reason we refused to release the will was that you appeared to be fighting part of the will and if we went to probate whilst that was happening then we would be obliged to ask for your removal.

8.
As we said before, family court is not the problem. Your alleged actions are the problem. (family court) haven't informed us of the court hearing outcome.

Your e-mail of 13th January.

You ask what is so difficult about arranging insurance. You of course have copies of all the necessary documentation, that may be why you found it so easy. (I) contacted 3 diiferent companies and was informed that he needed mortgage details and details of who it was insured with last. Information that you seem intent on keeping secret from us.

As for the 4 main aspects of the will as listed by yourself
You include as point 2
2. That (mutual friends) be appointed guardians.
So we all agree that the guardianship is part of the will.
As executors we are bound to uphold all the clauses of the will and not just the ones we like. Yet we have a letter from (childcatcher) saying that you believe the will to be unsafe and that you support (drunken father)'s application.
That is why we have been refusing to release the will.
A situation you could have resolved at anytime just by writing a statement of support for the will.

Your point 3
That the executors sort out the estate and pay all proper debts, funeral expenses testamentary expenses and tax.
You say that we have held it up and that our excuses have changed.

We have held it up initially because you appointed the same solictor as (drunken father) and we were told this would mean that we would have to ask for your removal if we went forward to probate. At great expense to the estate and distress for (MRs Them). We explained that at the time. You had a letter from (Will solicitor) giving you the same advice on the matter.
You refused to appoint another solicitor, in your phone call you said you would not back down. And we said that unless the legal advice changed we could not release the will. (this is the call were you told us you had better legal advice, but would not share it) Then we got a copy of the letter from (childcatcher).
Which we immediately e-mailed you about.
And we tried to make it clear that we were open to an alternative explanation from yourselves.
We suggested that you reserve power so probate could go forward and you would be able to rejoin once the matter was sorted out. You refused.
We asked you to issue a statement that you supported the will, so we could all four apply for probate. You haven't done that. You have completely ignored the suggestion.

Our "deliberate prevention" (as you call it) of the probate process is because our understanding is that if we go to probate whilst you are fighting the will we will be obliged to ask for you to be removed.

Whilst the prospect of having to deal with "the full force" of your familly is indeed daunting we have made promises to (our friend) that we would support her wishes and we intend to keep them.

As you are no doubt aware we are not allowed to see the court report. But we are allowed to see the court ruling . We are waiting for a copy from (childcatcher). We will let you know as soon as we have it. Or to speed it up, maybe you could forward a copy of yours, as we are told the court doesn't move very fast.
In the meantime
We are informed that we require copies of full supporting documentation for the probate form.
This is not an accusation. We are told that we shouldn't have signed without having them. And in order to protect all four of us, not just ourselves, against any problems that might arise in the future we should get them. We are told that if we don't get them, and an error (and we do just mean an error) comes to light at some future date then it could cause you problems. "

thats a draft, we want to run it past Mr handy tommorow. See how much troubel it'll get us into.

Im fucking stressed, cant think cant do anything useful, i feel sick. i am resolved to resign if its posible. I cant live like this.

My mouth is dry my eyes are unfocused, i feel sick, tierd and shakey. How can we deal with such bastards? This is how you get where "they" have got, bullying, intimidation and fear, no wonder Our Friend said she would rather her son was bought up in a childrens home than by them. So esentialy "they " have won, if anyone thinks that in UK nazie's woudl never have florished look at this story, these people, i can just see in a black uniform loading peopel onto ta death bound train ticking them off as they load, saying "Its Nothing personal"

Friday, January 13, 2006

Friday

Yesterday in the conversation the solicitor told us that the court down show any consistancy. One case he knew about, a lady dieing from a brain tumour promised her four kids to a friend of two years standing. Her husband, never had a drink/drug problem lost his kids to this friend after a court case. I happen to know who that guy was, it was the scolicitor himself, theres a great sadness there.

Saw Weezy She had a cold (a life threatening condition for her), but shes recovering well now. Looking forwards to getting her laptop computer and going on the net.

Just got brave and looked at the emails. Nothign there, they are waiting for us to realse the Will and they think they are scot free....are they bollox. When our sons asleep we have to compose a ripping "fuck off" email.... one saying your a lier and we know it, and now require varification of everything you tell us, makeing fun of his "secret legal" advice line, adviseing him that seeing as they refuse to tell us any finacial details then we are not liable for any loses (and he might like to run that past his "secret leagl advisor"), an attempt at intimidation is just that no matter how many times you say "its nothing personal", that we cant release the Will until we check out the court ruleing (due to his wish for secrecy, we must go to primary sources).... oh hes going to be chewing the carpet.

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Thursday

morning chatting with Mr handy, and his son who runs a shop a bit away.

Wandering round waiting fo rthe time to see solicitor got caught by Gallery Guy who ive been avoiding , cos i havent made anything for him for months, but no need he was cool, wants more finger automita, soon as i can, or anytime he said. His love life is stil going well, rich girl friend, free house free car etc.... fell on his feet there!

Afternoon meet with wife with Will solicitor. Nice chap comiserateing that the "evil ones" had won in such a despicable way. Hes off to another firm in two weeks, so probably the last time we will see him, we thanked him profusely for his help and suport of our Friend. hes alwasy a calming influence and made some interesting points. By applying for probate "they" are agreeing to the safety of the Will. They cant sue us for the delay, they cant keep us in the dark about finacial things at all (keep asking he said, to cover ourselves). And a threat is a threat, no matter if its preceeded by "its nothing personal"... He presented us with a letter adviseing us to release the Will, and then said we should apply to the court for the rulling in order to make the final decision as we are not entiteled to see the full report (that would be contempt of court) and seeing as "they" wont tell us the "secret legal advice" we cant act without it, with the added bonus that "they" will go beserk when we tell them to wait... (bit its resonable, to need evidence) Also he said the "confidentiality" bit was not true and laughed when i wrote Bollox next to my note to ask that. And the probate form is in two bits aparently, "they" blathered about the Tax office acepting it, which we didnt undrestand. Well theres two bits, the form and the Oath. The form gets acepted by the tax office then you have to go and swear and oath, that you have done it right to the best of your knowledge, which, means we have to be in full posetion of the facts, which we are not. Hummm i see stormy letters soon.

Mutual friend phoned, can our son come round to play with the lad and her daughter.. so off,as it might be the last time, hes off on Sunday, not far in distance but a world away in every other way.

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Wednesday

Interesting, just phoned Halifax endevoring to get house insurance that the "evil ones" let lapse. Halifax were very helpfull and she is on their database, but as not haveing a mortgage or insurance with them. Seeing as the "evil ones" have taken all the finacial stuff away with them im a bit stumped now.

yesterday the wife made the phone call to the Will solicitor and he refered to "them" as "the evil ones" too !....


Well the psycic tape, was usual Doris Stokes type stuff... Your doint the right thing, im talking to (the lad) at night... my bloody sister is going to get her way (as she apprently has) .. the father is very unprepaired (true) ... kiss the lad's chubby cheeks for me....Dotty bought £50 from friends jewlery shes sold at car boots etc.

Wife looks worried all the time. Im less worried. Im resolved to stay on if only cos it anoys the hell out of "them".

Im actuly not looking at the emails, we will when wife gets our son off to sleep, but i cant at the moment bring myself to look. We have to send an email asking for details of mortgage etc to get the insurance...silly i know writeing that resolved me to look, and theres nothing, they are indeed being awkward.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Tuesday

Sleepless night, last night "they" sent another ranting email. Of course the most irirtateing thing is they know that basicaly they have won. Thier "secret legal advice" has no doubt told them that seeing as the family court has as much respect for our friends dieing wishes as they do they have effectively overturned part of the Will and its no longer a stumbeling block.. Wife has phoned the Will solicitor to make an apointment (seeing him thursdays 2.00) and he is today sending out a letyer saying that and to release the Will.......fuck.

All night i was resolved to resign, now im not, im pretty determined to stay just to fuck them over as much as posible. Or just to see what happens.

Droped into see Mutual friend, apprently her refutation raised a few tears but had no effect is the end. Childcatcher actuly thanked her for her refutation even tho it pointed out that she was fairly incompitant and "they" told lies.... But the lies "they" told have been rebutted and presumably "they" will read this, tho they know no shame.

yes the lad is to go to drunken father, this sunday..... the court has proclaimed it.


It seems certain that "they" planned this from the first, from before our friend had even died. All the time schemeing and consipireing, stringing it out to this point. Its dificult to comprehend the pure selfish evil of it. So our friend is burid somewhere (at her own expense) she didnt want to be, her child is with someone she didnt want him to be with (and Mr "They" said at the Will reading "there is no doubt he is an unfit father"). And now they are going to sell her house (i have no doubt that is thier plan, so they can control drunken father with the money) and i wouldnt put it past them to have the long term plan to snatch him if he messes up... No wonder our friend said she would "rather have him (the lad) bought up in a childrens home than my sister" .

Ive just thought, seeing as they have expressly forbidden us to discus thier letter with anyone, how can we actuly know anything has changed? I mean we do, but legaly we dont...interesting point.

Mutual friend thinks we shouldnt resign. At this moment im inclined not to as well. If we resign then no one will be batting for good. I just dont want to spend another night like last night, cold shivering with anger and fetigue, every time i closed my eyes composeing letters to "them". Mutual friend is ok with the father now, tho she said after the court she had coffee with him and it seemd to just be dawning on him just what he was takeing on.


Dotty just phoned, shes comming round tommorow to play me a tape. Shes been off to comune with her Psycic friend. Apprently she says a preyer before starting, but this time Our Friend blasted tho imedietly, swearing about her "bloody sister". Seem to have got her wires crosed tho as sprit seemed under the impression that the lad had gone to the excrable two... im sure the tape will be interestign to hear, though i dont belive in it.

Monday, January 09, 2006

Monday

just past eight in morning. No email, so they have apparently let the house insurance lapse and havent even bothered to tell us. So its off to town this morning to find some, three quotes and take the lowest/best, and send them all three quotes then point out whaich we have chosen, that is "keeping you informed" not just telling someone what you have done and expecting them to fall in line. I asume thier "secret leal adviser" has told them to keep quiet at all costs till after the hearing today. We expect a storm right after, well fuck them, we can be as dificult as them anyday.

A sof two mins past 12 no email... wife set midday as deadline.. problem is. I went to town this morning trying to find house insurance. Lyds spent ages and came back with No (you cant insure any building you dont have an "interest" in, which im sure is wrong in this situation) natwest handed me to a fast talking phone operator who just filled in a form over the phone with lots of irelivent info and im sure not understanding the situation and quoted £190 odd ! ... and we dont knwo who "they" insured it with last time, tho it seems fishy that it cost only £70 and was for such a short time..... curioise... wifes just phoned and i think we must ask "them" for urgent details of who they insured with and how....


Bumped into Gaylord, he almost cried when he heard the news of the court debarcle. And he said quietly "then he (the lad) is lost"....

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Sunday

Day out getting stove pipe. Peoples driveing get worse on sundays ive found.

On the "situation" thinking on it, they have been planning this even before our friend died. How heartless is that? I mean they must have been thinking this way weeks before she died unbeliveabley wrong. When we meet with the solicitor i will ask what i can put in writeing to them i want them to know that we think thay are the most evil people we have ever had the misfortune to meet.

Saturday, January 07, 2006

Saturday

Been a bit dazed and confused today, mind running over the "situation"...... our sons been awful all day, due to lack of sleep, me too. Not fair on the wife, sorry.

Friday, January 06, 2006

Friday

Mutual friend mistakenly phoned, she ment to phone someone and dialed me instead so we chatted. Aprently the final court thing is Monday, for some reason i thought it was longer off. Could this be why the "gits" havent comunicated?... they dont want to State they dont or do suport the Will and have it read out in court? It would be the sort of scheme they would come up with. They probably think when the lad goes to the drunken father we will cave in, itll be a suprise to them in that case that we dont. We find it relivent that they have reportedly stated to the court that our friend wasnt of sound mind.... they have no respect for her whatsoever.

Wife has been on the phone to Will solicitor. He is of same opionion. They have spun it out to get the family court rulling, and voila they have "won"..... and we have to cover ourselves by sending a demand for the house insurance details within 48 hours or we have to get it ourselves... which we just did.

So they have to all intents and purposes "won" ... in the most shameful and underhand way i can imagin.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

thursday

Round the Handy Towers this morning, poor Mr Handys ill so we let him sleep while we whinged about "them" and thier unbelivable antics... Just looked No emails, maybe they are going fro a neglecting duties record. I want to hold off till next week on the Will Solicitor thing.

Frosty told me of somewhere cheeper to get chimney bits, hope to go there tommorow.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

Wednesday

Out this morning looking for stove pipe, interesting place we go to Macsalvers, where else can you buy an ancour twice as tall as me or a torpeado (decomisioned).... ended up a proper stove shop, god its expensive!



Call from Mutual friend, shes looking to find out some dates etc for her refuteing the lies told in the court statement. I helped all i can. Shes also had a very odd call from the Childcatcher, where the Childcatcher asked if she woudl give permision for ther to see Mutual Friends daughters mediacl records, this sent shivers up my spine. Luckly Mutual friend is wiser about these people now and indignantly refused. We have no idea why Childcatcher asked, what reason can thier be, when shes already writen her "report". which aprantly runs to 80 points 40 of which are untrue.

Wife insisted on sending an email to "them" last night, askign about the insurance and pointing out they had kept all sorts of stuff secret from us.... we printed it and sent it by post this morning too.

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Tuesday

Checked mail erlier and nothing yet. Wife wants to contact Will solicitor to start process to get them removed. I favour waiting, hopefully for an explosive letter from "them".. a straight refusual or admission of combating the Will would be very nice. We will see. They are playing a clever game within thie rown rules but thier rules are set up to suit them, and they have tripped over thier bile already.

Monday, January 02, 2006

Monday

No emails... i predict this is due to two things, firstly "they" want to consult thier "secret advisor" and "they" want to let thier proclaimed deadline to pass... so they think they are gaining moral high ground....as is they knew morals at all ah... So i predict tommorow is the danger day for comunitcations, irate and acusatory.... We have let the house go uninsured/the mortgage go unpaid. But since we dont even knwo what company its insured with and only by chance know the mortgage company (they sent a letter to the house that they should have sent to "them") .. One might say they have taken all that stuff on themselves since they have not informed us of anythign finacial in an officiel sense fromt he first...


We are all woried about Godbotherer. She seems to want to be 20 again. Ferety bloke is aparently ex con (drugs) who hangs out with her sons much younger mates. Wife told her off on the phone just now, trying to get her to understand, shes being silly. This seems to be how she behaved when 20 danceing the night away and getting screwed by strangers.

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Sunday, news years day.

Nope im not looking at the emails today..

Went to Hotdogs last night til about 2 in morning. Godbotherer seems to be going peculier she turned up from the pub after being awake for 24 hours and with tow guys in tow. One ferrity gezza notable for leanign on a candle and settign himself on fire and another with tats, heavy metal t-shirt and arm bands who looked like he still lived with his indulgent mum.... latter ferrty guy was seen with his arm round her. Uncharitable i thougth she would again be conplaining about being guilty about a once night stand.... Mrs Gardener has been round ther today and feret didnt get mentioned, maybe he went off maybe shes embaresed to mention it.